Whatever you want to be is okay.

I've been meaning to write something like this for a while now, for myself and every one of us who forget that we’re only humans and that we have infinite potential to change the course of things and shape them up as we like.

Hope you’ll like it.
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It’s okay to feel disappointed and disappointing, You don’t have to live up to other people’s expectations and they don’t have to live up to yours; all of us have to live up to our own and write our own story, obviously that involves other people being involved in this, but this shouldn't put them under pressure to be a part of something which they aren't comfortable with. You almost, always have to travel the last mile alone.

It’s okay to be skinny, It’s okay to be fat; whatever YOU want to be is okay. You don’t have to live up to the society’s expectation of how your body is supposed to be, however you want is to be is okay. Whatever gives you happiness is okay.

It’s okay to go absolute bananas and be crazy about someone, whatever you want to be is okay, It’s nobody’s business, we all have that one person in life and if we wouldn't, then life would be sad; but I’ll tell you when life will be sadder than what it is now, when you tell someone you love them just because you want to hear it from them too. You must remember, you brave and beautiful, person that there is love in possession and there is love in letting go.

It’s okay to be blunt and honest, Whatever you want to be is okay, these times are hard and they’ll love your honesty more than they’ll love your peachy-goodie answers. They will love whatever you want to be.

It’s okay to be insecure and wound up tight, whatever you want to be is okay, there’ll be a time when you’ll just learn how to move past it and then you’ll be the phoenix in the ashes. Glorious, untouched and free to make a new start.

It’s okay to feel judged and lonely, Whatever you want to feel is okay, we all feel that way at some point, you’re not alone my sweet sweet friend, but you must remember- “This too shall pass.”

It’s okay to be guilty and angry, whatever you want to be is okay, we’re all guilty around here and something always makes us angry. Whatever you want to be is just fine.

And it’s okay to feel like you can’t control things or people, feel exasperated, and feel like you’re “so-done” with people and their bullshit. Feel human. Whatever you want to be is okay.

Whatever you want to be is okay.