"He is able who thinks he is able."
Buddha
I've said this before and I'm saying this now.
YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN UNIVERSE.
An nobody can take that away from you.(This part I constantly reminding myself and everyone around.)
did somebody ever totally let you down, Walked all over your hopes and dreams for the future, made you feel like dirt, crushed your trust,made you feel like you were living a hoax?
Made you say that you "hate the idea of loving and trusting someone?"
Or that you're "never trusting someone again"?
( Just so that we're on the same page, You can love anyone. Your parents, Your best friend, Your partners,Your Friends, the dog you neighbour has or you have. ANYTHING AND ANYONE AT ALL.)
SO WHAT?
That person is NOT your whole life.
You probably have hundreds of other people around.
Sure if he/she was someone you were really close with it's VERY VERY difficult to get over the fact that they walked all over you.
It's like trying to walk with an unplastered broken leg. (More or less.)
But eventually you'll be able to do it.
VERY WELL.
I received a phone call from an old friend yesterday, she was telling me about how things are taking a toll on her.
How having a person you trust and love the most (Probably) walk out of your life is a huge effort.
You're filled with animosity, frustration and irritation. And how it's totally consuming her.
But, being able to do something like this marks a definite experience in your life. It marks a milestone of self esteem, states that you are able.
Able to make decisions that are important.
Able to walk away from the most tempting bid that might come to you.
This attempt leaves you corroded at some points.
Everyone is corroded at some point or the other.
But over the time you'll see that letting go and blessing the person who's hurt you is the best way to heal.
It's the epitome of selflessness as well as selfishness.
On one hand you're helping the person who's agonised you rise above the hurtful things he's done whereas on the other hand by doing this you're HEALING YOURSELF and you're rising above the pain, leading a better life than before.(Try doing it you'll feel the positivity in your life,DEFINITELY.)
Forgiveness is the MOST powerful thing gifted to man by the gods.
And everyone does not have the power to forgive, to let go of something which wounds the heart, even if in the end it's the right thing to do.
Consider yourself blessed if you can do that, you're making the world a better place.
So, what you need to do right now is take a deep breath, bless the person you're the most angry with right now with wisdom and turn over a new leaf.
For yourself and for the people who love you.
Because sometimes you have to let go to see what's going to come back to you.
And believe me it's ALWAYS better than what you let go of, ALWAYS.
Buddha
I've said this before and I'm saying this now.
YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN UNIVERSE.
An nobody can take that away from you.(This part I constantly reminding myself and everyone around.)
did somebody ever totally let you down, Walked all over your hopes and dreams for the future, made you feel like dirt, crushed your trust,made you feel like you were living a hoax?
Made you say that you "hate the idea of loving and trusting someone?"
Or that you're "never trusting someone again"?
( Just so that we're on the same page, You can love anyone. Your parents, Your best friend, Your partners,Your Friends, the dog you neighbour has or you have. ANYTHING AND ANYONE AT ALL.)
SO WHAT?
That person is NOT your whole life.
You probably have hundreds of other people around.
Sure if he/she was someone you were really close with it's VERY VERY difficult to get over the fact that they walked all over you.
It's like trying to walk with an unplastered broken leg. (More or less.)
But eventually you'll be able to do it.
VERY WELL.
I received a phone call from an old friend yesterday, she was telling me about how things are taking a toll on her.
How having a person you trust and love the most (Probably) walk out of your life is a huge effort.
You're filled with animosity, frustration and irritation. And how it's totally consuming her.
But, being able to do something like this marks a definite experience in your life. It marks a milestone of self esteem, states that you are able.
Able to make decisions that are important.
Able to walk away from the most tempting bid that might come to you.
This attempt leaves you corroded at some points.
Everyone is corroded at some point or the other.
But over the time you'll see that letting go and blessing the person who's hurt you is the best way to heal.
It's the epitome of selflessness as well as selfishness.
On one hand you're helping the person who's agonised you rise above the hurtful things he's done whereas on the other hand by doing this you're HEALING YOURSELF and you're rising above the pain, leading a better life than before.(Try doing it you'll feel the positivity in your life,DEFINITELY.)
Forgiveness is the MOST powerful thing gifted to man by the gods.
And everyone does not have the power to forgive, to let go of something which wounds the heart, even if in the end it's the right thing to do.
Consider yourself blessed if you can do that, you're making the world a better place.
So, what you need to do right now is take a deep breath, bless the person you're the most angry with right now with wisdom and turn over a new leaf.
For yourself and for the people who love you.
Because sometimes you have to let go to see what's going to come back to you.
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