In some cases you can't stop them.
In others you don't want to because you respect free will.
You feel a hole in your environment, which is hard to fill up.
But you try anyway, Kudos to you for that.
Everything will,eventually,be okay.
Things will eventually fall back into place and you will light up again.
You'll have some sunshine again.
Just give it time, some time.
Because you need you time and the others need theirs.
Let time take your pain away.
It will.
Let time help you realise things.
It will.
Let time give you strength.
It will.
Let time help you evolve.
It will.
Give time the power to reconstruct you.
IT WILL.
Everyone who has been in and out of your life has made you who you are, REALISE that.
Respect your choices and decisions.
Respect their choices and decisions.
Forgive and let go.
Hope that they are able to forgive and let go.
Cherish the memories and smile.
Hope that they hold on to the memories and it lights up their days sometimes.
And set them free, set YOURSELF free.
Free from all the expectations and burdens and everything else which stops you from being your true self.
You'll eventually find yourself down the road.
And if they're yours they'll come back to you, eventually, no matter what.
Till then, learn from your mistakes so that you don't make them again.
So that you don't lose a part of yourself again.
So that you can be who you were meant to be.

Hi!
ReplyDeleteThere are two things that repeatedly strike me about your blogs...'BELIEVING' and 'SETTING FREE'.
1) If you say you 'BELIEVE' in miracles/ in being master of your universe .....
then 'BELIEVE' ..as of now you 'LIKE TO BELIVE'.
2) Whatever a person ever does it is for himself/herself ONLY. We dont like to 'believe' that specially in a world where being selfish is satanic. BEING SELFISH IS A GREAT VIRTUE...SO JUST 'SET YOURSELF FREE'. Rest will take care of itself.
............and a song dedication for you..
I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor
At first I was afraid I was petrified
Kept thinkin' I could never live without you by my side;
But then I spent so many nights
Thinkin' how you did me wrong
And I grew strong and I learned how to get along
Do you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die?
Oh no, not I. I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive;
I've got all my life to live,
I've got all my love to give and I'll survive,
I will survive. Hey hey.
It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
Kept trying' hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart,
And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself. I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
I will survive.
Hii!
ReplyDeleteThankyou for your opinion on y writing, But I disagree with you on the "Whatever a person ever does it is for himself/herself ONLY" part.
A lot of us aer much above the selfishness.
Maybe if you look around you'll find countless examples.
And thankou so much for the song.
Inspired.
Mitisha, this is BEAUTIFUL !!! I can read it over and over and get inspired a little more every time ! Take this further, you've got it in you !
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