I've always been a big fan of change, always wanted it, always will want it, but I'll also admit, that it's not easy.
Oh no! Not at all.
To put it in a metaphor, it's like going into surgery, you know everything will be fine afterwards, you'll heal and recover and be in a better state than you are right now but you're scared.
Scared of what will be and what will not be.
Scared of everything that could be.
Scared. Just plain scared.
Even if there's nothing to be scared of!
One of the most ancient ways to succeed in life as I've been told time and again is to be aware, to be aware of the potential every person has.
Take my word when I tell you that "change" is the best way to find out.
When you're out of your comfort zone, when you're doing something you've never done before.
When you've to work and co-ordinate things with people you've very recently met, then your true self surfaces.
You find out your weaknesses, your strengths, your flaws and your armoured points.
You become YOU, just not the you that you think you are, but the you that you 'actually' are.
We,over time, mold ourselves to be a person that we think the world would love to see.
We blanket our real selves and put on a mask, hide behind something I call a safety cocoon.
Become a monotonous replica of someone else, who is probably hiding inside his/her own safety cocoon.
Change.
Change the way you want the world to see you, let it see what you truly are.
Change the way you want to see yourself, see what you truly are.
You don't like something about yourself?
Take charge and change it.
You don't like something about someone else?
Give them a piece of your mind, it might do them good.
You want to discover yourself?
Change your desire to be safe, and face difference and difficulty.
Change, because to do something you've never done before, you've to be someone you've never been before.
I like this one :)
ReplyDeleteYou‘ve hit the nail on the head.
truly inspirational... I felt the eagerness of yours dat u r lookin forward to, sum where in between the lines I found the situations dat I'm going thru..nyways a gud effort by you.. loved the last 3 lines!! :))
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